someone stole your body and is controlling your life. Call the police, or just take control back

So, its your body, or is it?

Tonight at work I spoke with a woman that had been arrested and was in jail. As the woman was speaking she told me that she had several different mental disorders. She was becoming increasingly agitated and was having a panic attack. The staff at the jail was asking her questions and she refused to answer them.

She stated “I don’t want to tell you because you will laugh at me.” This woman was an adult approximately 50 years old. Several workers in the jail tried to comfort her by saying “we wont laugh” but she was undaunted in her resolve that someone would judge and make fun of her. I asked her “why does it mater what others think of you, and why do you care if they do laugh.” She started to talk about her appearance. She told me how fat she is and how ugly she looks. She told me that she can not go outside because others will judge her. She said that when she is at home she refuses to leave the house for the fear of others judging and laughing at her. She also talked about her other mental issues that she believes she has. She told me about all the drugs she takes.

During this time of mental imbalance and perspective imbalance she told me that she could not control her issues. She continued to say that she could not control her body or her mind. She stated that she could not calm down or control herself. She even went so far as to say that the only person that could help her was her father. She yelled and cried about how her father could save her and that her father could make her feel better. This was a grown woman, behaving as a 9 year old would, totally believing that her father would take away her pain.

I have great compassion for this woman and do not tell you this to make fun of her.

I did not talk with her a long time but I did pose the question to her. I asked her who is in control of her body, and who is driving her body. I also asked her, if she is not, then who is? She stopped her yelling and crying for a moment to think on this concept.

My point is that either you are controlling your body and mind and spirit, or someone else is. So, did someone else steal your self control? Is someone else driving your body, controlling its every thought and move? Because either you are, or someone else is. It does not control itself. Without control it dies, so someone is driving it, but who?

If someone were to steal your car you would call the police and fight for your right to get your car back. You would do what it takes to recover it. You would want to be the one driving your car again. So why are we so ready to release the control of our mind and body?

Often we make excuses; “I can’t control it,” “I can’t help it,” “That’s not me,” We decide that we are not in control, but the fact remains.

Only you can control your thoughts. Only you can control your body. Only you can control your spirit. You are always in control.

So, when you find yourself giving your control away, making excuses or taking the easy “I can’t do it” road its time to re-evaluate who is driving your body.

I submit to you that you have full 100% total and absolute control over your body and mind. You are the only one that does. Your father, doctor, spouse, boss, or children do not control your mind. If you are struggling with any limiting belief; if you are struggling with any mental anguish or mental illness; if you are struggling with issues of self doubt, self love, self worth, or if you just don’t feel that you can be loved, i challenge you to take control of your self back.

How do you do this?

The first step is to recognize that you are the only one, the only one! that runs your life. You are in total control. You can not take your self back until you realize, believe, and take responsibility for this.

Second you must take responsibility for where you want to drive your body. You must decide to eliminate the excuses and to be in control.

Granted, these are just basic and beginning steps to a big process, but these are the first.

So are you in control? Want to know more about being in control? If this has sparked your interest comment and I will give you more steps to being 100% in control. Also feel free to subscribe and look forward to my web sight that will be up and running soon.

Your friend, JC

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  1. February 20, 2010 at 5:20 pm

    Nice post and this post helped me alot in my college assignement. Thank you on your information.

  2. February 21, 2010 at 3:01 am

    You are very welcome. Enjoy and thank you.

  3. June 5, 2010 at 1:04 am

    Very nice and intrestingss story.

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